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TAYLOR’S BEAUTIFUL
BIRTH

Everyone always told me during my pregnancy how well I looked. And I
did feel good too. In fact, sometimes I forgot that I was even
pregnant – until I looked down at my expanding waistline! I attribute
a lot of this to HypnoBirthing. The relaxation and breathing
techniques learned were wonderful and kept me feeling relaxed and
calm. I used the breathing technique every night to send me off to
sleep and also to relax me anytime I was uptight.
On Mothers Day, I had Braxton Hicks almost all day. They were very
mild, I was unable to tell when they began or ended, just that they
were happening. I went to bed that evening and listened to my
relaxation CD and had a full nights sleep – except for the 1-2 regular
toilet breaks! The next morning, they had stopped. I went to see my
obstetrician for a regular check-up and he told me that I was fully
effaced and was just starting to dilate. “Everything is fine. I will
see you next week” he said. I thought to myself “I don’t think it will
be that long!” And I was right.
I went home and continued on with my day. Around 2pm, I started to
feel mild surges. Each time I felt a surge begin, I sat down, closed
my eyes and focused on the relaxation breathing technique. When the
surge passed, I continued about my business. By around 3pm, I was
still having surges and they were 10 minutes apart lasting around 20
seconds. I rang Andrew and asked him to come home. He arrived home
around 4.45pm. The surges were still around 10 minutes apart and
slightly stronger, but I still felt comfortable and relaxed and
completely in control. I called mum and told her what was happening
and she came to my home around 6pm.
I had a light dinner, then went to bed and listened to my relaxation
tape and got some sleep. When I got up, I lay on the couch on my left
side and drifted in and out of sleep. Every hour, the surges got
gradually stronger and lasted longer at about 5 minutes apart. I knew
that my baby was making his way down when I got up to go to the
toilet, as walking felt different and sitting on the toilet was
uncomfortable. By 11pm, mum called the hospital and let them know that
I was in labour and how I was progressing. The midwife asked to speak
to me but as mum passed me the phone, I had a surge and I dropped the
phone so that I could close my eyes and focus on my breathing. My mum
explained to her what was happening and how I was feeling and that we
would probably be there shortly. By 11.30 the surges were getting
quite strong, so mum called my dad to come around and stay with my 3
year old son Jordan.
We left to go to the hospital just after midnight and arrived in the
labour room around 12.30am. I continued to use my breathing throughout
the surges and felt relatively comfortable. Each surge, I visualized
my cervix opening and my baby making his way smoothly and easily down
the birth path. At about 1.50am I felt enormous pressure. At this
stage I was still fully dressed, and all that I was worried about was
that my membranes were going to rupture all over my tracksuit pants!
The midwife went out to call the obstetrician and when she came back I
said ” Something’s coming out!”
She took off my pants and underwear and a minute later my membranes
did rupture. The midwife told me to listen to my body and for me to do
whatever I felt I needed to do. I began to breathe him down. As I felt
his head start too crown, I felt a burning sensation. I put my hand
down to feel his head coming out. The midwife said that his head had
slid back in and he may just be “like a little turtle for a while,
coming out a little and then back in”. I thought to myself “No way!
Next time I push his head is going to come all the way out!” And it
did! The umbilical cord was around his neck and when she tried to ease
it over his head it was too short, so she had to clamp it for Andrew
to cut. Then I gave another push and the rest of his little body slid
out. 2.03am! The midwife passed our beautiful little boy up onto my
tummy for his very first cuddle. The doctor did not make it! I don’t
think he would have made it even if he had have been in the very next
room!
I felt so empowered of what I had achieved. It was a wonderful feeling
knowing that I have given our precious little boy such a calm,
relaxed, controlled and peaceful entry into the world. The way it
should always be.
A wonderful experience that I will always cherish and hold in my heart
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We would
like to express our greatest thanks for your training with “HypnoBirthing”.
It worked wonders, more than we ever hoped for.
I had a pleasant labour, first had a show 25/6/04 at 1.40pm, by
11.30pm that night they got to 5 mins apart surges. I just breathed
through them with ease. In the hospital by 1am and had our little girl
Sienna by 5.05am 26/6/04. No drugs, no tears.
It was a fantastic experience and I am recommending it to everyone.
Many thanks again. Silvio, Claudia and Sienna |
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enough. It was so rewarding to stand and just watch nature at work, no
medication and yet a calm and confident mother.” An Obstetrician |
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RUDY'S STORY
Mum and Dad visited the hospital at 9am, on the morning of the 20th
April for my 41 week appointment. My little heart was listened to for
half an hour and was beating strong. I had a scan to check the levels
of my amniotic fluid, as sometimes it can get quite low after 40 weeks
and the doctors all wanted to make sure I was safe and sound.
We were all looking forward to a natural birth, at the Family Birthing
Centre. A special place that Mum and Dad had picked for us, that would
allow us to have as natural birth as possible with very low
intervention. No epidurals! No Forceps! No forced birth. They had also
said I could stay in mum's tummy a bit longer, as long as everything
was ok!
We went into the doctor's office for the result and were told that I
would have to be induced within 24 hours as my amniotic fluid levels
were low!!!! Safe levels were a reading between 5 and 25, and I was
only 4.6!! The Doctor gave Mum an internal and noticed I was ready for
action and 1cm dilated already, which would mean a very good
induction. Rats! So close to birthing on our own!!! I was going to
have to think fast!
Mum and Dad knew, that for my safety, they were prepared to sacrifice
all other plans. Being induced meant that Mum would be in the regular
labour ward and we wouldn't be able to stay at the Birth Centre. She
was scared of being induced and a little upset. It also meant that Dad
couldn't sleep over, like we had planned and we only had a few hours
to come to terms with it all! Secretly....I readied myself for action.
One of the midwives made us feel better by giving us her secret castor
oil recipe for natural labour inducement and told mum they would break
her waters at the birth centre first, before she went to the labour
ward, to see if she could still go into labour herself before the
induction. This was very special to us, as the birth centre don't
normally break your waters unless absolutely necessary!
We all went home and began calling everyone to let them know......
Meanwhile, Mum had been having, what she thought were the old "Braxton
Hicks" contractions; completely pain free regular tightening. She had
thought they weren't anything worth getting our hopes up for as she'd
had them for a few months throughout our pregnancy.
Grandpa and Gran in Scotland were next on the list of phone calls,
when slowly but surely I started to get things moving! We had no time
to waste!
Just after 6:30pm, mum had a show and the castor oil kicked in! The
surging contractions became more intense around 6:50 pm and she told
Daddy she was definitely in labour and that I was going to make it
into the world before the doctor's had a chance at me!!
Sometime between 7pm and 8pm, Mum decided that she had a few hours of
labour ahead of her and these surges were pretty intense down the
lower back, so she got dad to run her a bath for her to relax in!
But uh oh! things were getting more intense and between 8pm and 9pm,
while mum was in the bath, those surges were not only really regular,
but slowly mum already felt the urge to push....and so she did! Dad
moved round and packed the car up ready for the hospital. Grandad was
in the lounge, thinking we had heaps of time to get to the hospital as
most mums have at least 8 hours of labour with their first
baby.....but Grandad didn't count on me! The birth centre was called
and they listened to mummy having a couple of surges and they said if
she was no longer comfortable at home then she should come into the
hospital! Nanny was on her way home from work to spend the night at
our house, and she was going to drive us all to the hospital. She was
about 20 minutes away, and mummy felt she couldn't wait that long, but
everyone thought we still had plenty of time! Even mummy didn't know I
was planning such a quick escape!
9pm - 9:20pm and it's all a bit of a blurr!
Daddy held mummys hand throughout her surges and her body started
pushing me out more and more! Her water's broke when daddy left the
bathroom for just a minute or two and by the time he came back mum had
some big news!!!
"I don't thing we're going to make it to the hospital" she said!
"What?!!!!" Said Daddy
"I can feel the head honey!" Said Mummy
"S*!t" Said Daddy!
Grandad was instructed to call an ambulance at 9:10pm and began
instructing daddy on how to deliver a baby!
When Nanny arrived home from work, she calmly walked inside and called
out hello, when she was told by Grandad to get herself in that
bathroom as I was being born right now!!!
She walked into the bathroom to discover yours truly popping my head
out and Daddy leaning over the bathtub, making sure I didn't come out
all by myself.
Mum gave another push and out I came to her great delight and
relief!!! (She was secretly pleased just at the moment of everyone
elses panic, when my head started to show, as she knew it was all
going to be over soon!!!)
So Nanny and Daddy and Mummy delivered me together under Grandad's
expert instruction.The paramedics arrived soon after and Mum and I
went to the hospital, safely and snugly into our Birthing Centre room,
while the troops cleaned up the hallway carpet and the bathroom (Nanny
said that Daddy missed a spot or two!) and Daddy called Gran and
Grandpa all the way over in Scotland to tell them the happy news.
Rudy had arrived!!!
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“ Thank you for allowing me to be part
of this wonderful birth. It is many years since I have had the
opportunity to witness a natural birth. Usually that is reserved for
the birthing centres.”
A Midwife |
“It was just the most amazing
experience I have ever had. Even though I had my doubts that it would
work, it did and I feel so proud that I achieved exactly what I set
out to achieve.”
A Proud Mum |
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How can I thank you enough, without the skills I learnt
in your HypnoBirthing classes I’m not sure I could have managed. While
the birth was long and there were times I was ready for the quick fix
– I managed to stay calm and “breathe”, but then I was on the home
stretch and I got my second wind and out came my beautiful little
(well, big 9lb 4oz!) boy. I’m so glad I did it my way and now that we
are home and settling in, I would definitely do it all over again –
although not for a while. Thanks again
Kylie and Isaac |
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We cannot thank you enough for assisting us to have a
wonderful birthing experience which we will remember always.
Love Susan, Andrew Jarrod and Conno |
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My Mummy and Daddy would like to
thank you for all your support. My Mummy had a great birth and made an
amazingly quick recovery which she doesn’t believe would have happened
without HypnoBirthing!
Best wishes Chloe |
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